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I really have to put myself back in the equation.... I need to learn to take better care of myself.

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Sun, 04/18/2010 - 10:55pm

What do you do to take care of yourself? I am very bad at it --- I end up not eating all day, yet am overweight STILL 2 years later after having my second child, I need time to myself, and never figure out how/when to take it.... I need to exercise --- yet don't. This has got to stop.

Disengaged is a good place to be and stay!

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Sun, 04/18/2010 - 10:31am

My SS11 came over yesterday, and I apologized to him for last week end --- my part anyway. He was super great about it --- said "It's OK", I told him that I love him and don't want him to be mad at me, etc... didn't mention any specifics, as I am SURE BM will grill him about if I mentioned anything and if so, what, exactly.

Do I apologize to SS for MY part of the mess that happened last weekend?

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Thu, 04/15/2010 - 1:31pm

My SS11 (along with our BS -- 2yo & 4yo) witnessed all 4 of us adults --- BF, me, BM & her SO get in a heated verbal fight when they picked him up last week end. It ended with my DH, our kids and me walking away, after SO threatened to "knock" us both out ---

I give up....

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Wed, 04/14/2010 - 1:40pm

you know, I found you guys just at the right time. I was talking to my DH about this week end, and we are getting SS Saturday morning, rather then Friday night due to his Lacrosse practice & pictures --- and then we have my nephew's party in a couple of hours away, which will be fun. My DH says "So Saturday is going to be busy." And I respond, yeah, and she's getting SS at 6PM on Sunday, right?" Which is what the divorce agreement says -- 7PM Friday - Sunday 6PM every other week --- which we NEVER get -- BM usually sends her mother around 1PM to pick him up.

BM told my DH that things are "tight" at home...

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 11:42pm

She just bought a house in August, and has an 11 year old boy with my husband (SS) and a 2.5yo baby boy with her "fiance". Apparently, things are so "tight" financially at home, that they can't afford a babysitter for their baby --- so the fiance is working at a job & living with his mother & the baby during the week (about an hour away from BM)... so she only sees her baby now on the week ends? They just came back from a vacation in DR, and have a new car that HER mother bought them -- a 2010 Escape....

SO.OVER.IT.ALL.

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Submitted by JustLeicaGirl on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 10:07am

Hi, I just found this site --- and wish I found it 5+ years ago!! I have been living with the DRAMA of a BM for a long time. I have gone through jealousy, obsession, hatred, disgust, disinterest, and just wishing she would GO AWAY. This week end ended in an incident where her fiance threatened to "Knock you both out - I don't care." -- referring to my DH and me --- while I was with my DH's and my 4 year old, and my DH was holding our 2 year old.