I've been in a relationship with a man that has four children to my none. Ages 19m, 6, 8, and 10. They have two different mothers, both are drug addicts, and both are in jail. Their father (my S.O.) is in recovery, clean for 9 years. The 19 month old girl is special needs, but I love her to death, it's his three eldest that drive me up the wall. I've been around some poorly behaved children before, but these kids are awful. They throw tantrums about everything, and I mean every little thing. They won't do timeouts, they swear, they hit/kick, they break the furniture.