How do you all feel about that? It urks the crap outta me. I see no reason for BM to contact DH about anything concerning their adult children, unless its a real emergency.

BM still calls DH about their adult children, to b*tch him out about how they need this or that and how he doesn't help them (her jaded opinion.) Mind you this woman doesn't do crap for her kids and has never provided for them financially.

So SS15 who is here for the summer, decided to go into my wallet while I was asleep and steal $20. I rarely carry cash but my husband gave me a $20 bill last night so I could use it to get my car washed this morning. I put it in my wallet and went to bed. My purse was hanging in the coat closet downstairs. Well this morning I get up at 5am to workout and something told me to look in my wallet and sure enough the $20 was gone. I knew right away who took it.

SS15 comes back to live with us next week. Its been a glorious 6 month break. Our home runs smoothly, no drama whatsoever, clean house, peaceful and everyone is on the same page.

SS15 doesn't want to come back either. He gets to do whatever he wants at his BM's. He's drinking, smoking, experimenting with drugs (shrooms and coke) and goes to college parties all the time. His BM is a college student and lives in some family housing for student families near the campus.

It kills me that DH refuses to acknowledge his kids' bad/disrespectful behavior towards me. I know it must be hard to hear someone tell you that your kid is sh*tty. Not that I've told DH that but I have eluded to that in a more politically correct manner. But seriously c'mon! His kids are sh*tty to him as well and he hates it so why am I so out of pocket to make the same observation and speak on it?

DH doesn't even want to deal with his own kids, so wtf would make him think I would want to deal with them and their bs?