Holy schnickeys! 8 kids! Well, you have half the battle won since the kids all get along, so that's great. Sounds like bm is a piece of work, so you can vent about her here if you'd like! Welcome to ST!
Thanks forestfairy, and hell yes she is a piece of work (you put it more nicely than I ever would). I feel terrible for these kids. As for religious beliefs, I'm not into that really. But I believe something put me and DH together, whether it was Divine intervention, the alignment of the stars, whatever floats your boat. His kids needed someone who cares about them already, not someone who is just walking in on the situation. They have so much emotional damage, it is just heartbreaking. It's one thing to be a bad mom all the time. But to have a wonderful mommy doing everything for you, to do a complete 180 on you, daddy, and the family, they just did not know which way was up for a while there. I swear, I believe she had a psychotic break. She's a complete narcissist.
She is sowing her wild oats. Probably never got a chance, maybe married too young.... who knows.... but... sad that she is losing everything good in her life to continue with her nonsense.
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Holy schnickeys! 8 kids!
Holy schnickeys! 8 kids! Well, you have half the battle won since the kids all get along, so that's great. Sounds like bm is a piece of work, so you can vent about her here if you'd like! Welcome to ST!
Thanks forestfairy, and hell
Thanks forestfairy, and hell yes she is a piece of work (you put it more nicely than I ever would). I feel terrible for these kids. As for religious beliefs, I'm not into that really. But I believe something put me and DH together, whether it was Divine intervention, the alignment of the stars, whatever floats your boat. His kids needed someone who cares about them already, not someone who is just walking in on the situation. They have so much emotional damage, it is just heartbreaking. It's one thing to be a bad mom all the time. But to have a wonderful mommy doing everything for you, to do a complete 180 on you, daddy, and the family, they just did not know which way was up for a while there. I swear, I believe she had a psychotic break. She's a complete narcissist.
She is sowing her wild oats.
She is sowing her wild oats. Probably never got a chance, maybe married too young.... who knows.... but... sad that she is losing everything good in her life to continue with her nonsense.