Sometimes it feels like I am the only one that fights for my SS. I know that my DH loves his child & wants this too, but when it comes down to it, any time BM has a tantrum he gives in. He says that he just knows how she is & that he will never be able to get anywhere with her, & that talking to a rock would yield better results. I've had my share of conversations with her, so I can agree that she really is about as dumb as a box of rocks & makes me want to smash my face against something hard over & over again. But!