My step daughter i 6 1/2 and still pees her pants... We have tried everything from spanking, timeouts, making her lay in bed all day, only let her have water the rest of the day,pull ups, diapers, grounding, and so fourth. I don't understand! and its usually the second or third day from coming from her moms or granny's and she says she doesn't get in trouble for it at their house but her brother from her mom poops his pants and does get in trouble