I live in Alberta. I was wondering if there is anything legal that I can do to stop the abusive words that are used about me to the children. That may seem like a childish question these kids are 9 and 11 years old. They visit every second weekend and Christmas. as well they spend a month with us in the summer. most of the summer they spend it with me cause their dad works. I try to be the best step parent I can be. But while the kids are with her she is obsessed with bad mouthing me. It doesnt bother me that she does it, its the fact that she does it to the kids.