I have been married for 4 years and my husband has an ex wife and they have a child together which she is eight years old. When I first moved in with my husband the ex did not know anything about me and my stepdaughter and I got along so great but then she was going home and talking about me and her mother wanted to meet me but I was either at work or not home when she would come by and pick up Haley. So the ex made up a lie about me saying I was taking her daughter to nasty websites. At first the ex just kept calling and talking to my then bf about it and then she came barging into our place and he let her on the computer she was trying to find info out about me which she found nothing because I do not go to those websites and never even herd of them when she brought them up. She then dropped it and met me that evening and from there I begain picking up Haley and taking her home because the ex wanted to sleep in and she didnt want to see my then bf. This went on till we went on vacation. While on vacation my husband and I got married. It was preplanned and the ex knew about it. When we got back the ex went a lil crazy and ever since then we have been dealing with her lies. She would send her daughter over and tell her that if she hit me she would get as she puts it a "prize" so my step daughter would come over and hit and kick me and say really nasty comments about me. My husband has never stood by me and continues to let her do this. My step daughter was 4 when we got married and now she is eight the kicking and hitting dont happen as much now but the verbal abusive from her and her mother is still going on. The two of them lie about me so much its scary because she falsely lies about me to CPS and they come to my house and I cant believe they havent done anything to her for making false accuations because my house is not the way the she tells them it is. I have since had a child and he has turned one and my step daughters abuse has started on him she is getting into his face telling him if he doesnt do what she wants she going to hit him. I keep him as far away from her when she is here becasue I am affaid of what she will do because she is very abusive and has anger problems I have seen her punch a little girl in the face. What I am needing advice on is should I leave my husband because this never going to end and he wont stop it because he is afaid he is never going to see his daughter again becasue the ex likes to withhold the daughter when she is going though one of her fits. Please help me with any advice.