My last post was of my 20yo SS that had moved in and I wanted him out due to his past with drugs, his laziness, lack of respect for me or my husband. He was put out. He moved back in with his grandma that has enabled him all his life. She offered to buy him a $12,000 used car that wasn't good enough, he wanted one that was at least worth $20K. I guess in his mind he is worth it. So she said forget it and he is still car-less. Then he decided to steal her CC and charge it up. So she had enough and kicked him out. Guess whose door he came knocking on... You got it ours cause no one else wanted him. My husband stupidly let him back in. He said he can't have his son on the street. I was a little insensitive and said a bus depot is not the street. I lost the battle and the little prick came to stay with us for 3 days. All the while I'm having to hide my belongings. Since if he will steal from a woman he "loves and respects" what would he do in my house. Well his 3 days were up we got him out. He couldn't find a halfway house to stay in since in my area they require you to be drug free and they test. He told us he couldn't pass a piss test. Shocker there... I had hidden my xanax in a different place than my purse. And this morning I went to go get it since I had my house back. Which I found it, all but one pill gone!!!! The little prick went through my personal belongings, which means he would have had to raid my closet to find it. It was hidden, in a small box, inside of a bag inside of a bigger box behind some old clothes on a shelf in the back of my closet. REALLY you little jerk??? This morning I called his parole officer. Now hopefully the courts will do something with him. He has no respect for his family or himself. If he keeps using he's gonna end up dead. He does not care about the stress and worry that he gives his family. He excepts to be taken care of and not have to work for anything just have everything handed to him. Before we kicked him out the first time, he asked me what I was doing when I was 20. I told him I was a full time student and working 32 hours a week. He did not like that answer and shut up... Part of me feels guilty for calling his PO, i feel like it should have come from someone else, one of his parents or grandparents but I know they will not do it. I do not want to see him dead, but if he keeps using they will find him dead with a needle in his arm or he will have gotten involved with the wrong people and who knows what will happen.... Should I feel bad???