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The Situation is best left alone

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Submitted by jenny8675309 on Tue, 03/25/2014 - 9:30pm

So I have been reflecting... and i have given up the projected future where my step kids are with us full time. There is no light at the end of the tunnel in that battle. The girls are showing me signs that they are functioning well and know the difference between neglect and caring parents. They are calling our house "home" and insisting on coming here over staying with their mother. I am not going to try to take anything away from anyone. no one wants to look on their childhood and say they had a failure for a mother. So i wouldn't wish upon the kids to be taken away from here.

Bride the BM for custody

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Submitted by jenny8675309 on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 9:46pm

I had recently thought about calling CPS regarding the BM's lack of dental care for my skids. Sd7 and Sd5 had never seen the dentist and cried at every meal about their teeth hurting last summer. She finally took them to get cavities filled but still feeds them a bunch of processed sugar filled shit food and candy. I also considered calling to give them the heads up that she has her children in a new residence and her previous residence which i now reside was a disgusting hell hole after she moved out.

Giving up taking smack for Lent

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Submitted by jenny8675309 on Mon, 03/10/2014 - 10:19pm

}:)

We took sd5, sd7 and my ds to church last week to learn about Lent. I found this a wonderful opportunity to really give something up that will help me to become more of the kind of mother I want to be to my children and stepchildren. So i decided to give up talking crap about their bm, whether it be in front of them or to friends and relatives. IT IS HARD. I know it's wrong to say things to them about my disapproval of her life choices. But she is such a moron.