Hi everybody, I'm new to this whole blogging thing but I figured I should give it a try. I need to find some way to relate to others with shared experiences. I have been in other relationships, even one other marriage before and I was a step-mother in my previous marriage as well. Now I didn't necessarily get along with my former step-children's mother but this time around I absolutely despise the woman. I have made every effort to get along with her and be cordial, but she is selfish and does not have her daughter's best interest at heart.