School starts back!!! Yay!!!
The positives: No BM at my house for exchanges each week since exchanges will take place after school. 9 glorious months without that narcissistic, home-wrecking-wanna-be, sociopathic wh0re at my home!!!
At lunch, I wont come home to find SD11 still in her pjs, holding down my sofa with her chores still not done and all the food eaten!
When I get home from work, maybe the SD can think of something to say besides, "what's for dinner?" (while she is STILL in her pjs and her chores are STILL not done).
BUT, SD hogs the bathroom in the morning, me, my dh and my BD12 ALSO HAVE TO GET READY!
SD leaves remenants of her breakfast, and her lunch-making in my kitchen and dining room.
SD comes home from school in a foul mood everyday, and uses the hour and 15 minutes before dh gets home to mouth off to me and BD.
But I have finally had enough and Dh is going to have to deal with these things or else I will.
I think I have had enough now and I am ready to put my foot down. SD isn't going to run my household any longer!!! I'm not getting divorced and leaving my beautiful home and giving up a man that I love(despite his parental failure)and be on my own with my BD because SD invades my home every other week and tries to take over!
Wish me luck, I'm going on 6 years with the same problems, and I have made SOME headway, but anymore, I am just too tired to put up with the BS. Dh is really the problem. If he let me "parent" SD the way I parent my BD, I wouldn't have these problems.
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Yeah, the recorder idea is
Yeah, the recorder idea is awesome, thank you. Last school year, after I complained to dh about his rude child, and him making excuses("she was just tired" was a good stand-by for him) I decided to write down what sd does. Only on day one she slammed the door in my BD's face while BD was talking and I flew into action and read that kid the riot act!! Lasted for a good while, but the snarky remarks are creeping back in and with school coming on, she will be the devil again. I like the recorder idea because she cant say, " I promise to God I didn't do it" and dh believes her. He's not THAT stupid, but he doesn't want to hurt her precious feelings. Then DH will probably be mad at ME for recording her. Oh well, then he needs to find a babysitter for her for while he is at work.
I bought a nanny cam, but it
I bought a nanny cam, but it doesnt work right. I have to figure out what Im doing wrong. I got that to prove to dh that sd pilfers in our room.