I have now been told countless times that SS is just testing me, it's just a faze. Any idea on how long this testing lasts? I feel like it's going to last forever after reading other posts on here. We have SS every second weekend. Last weekend was awful and I spent most of it in tears. But when his BM arrived to pick him up he cries as he doesn't want to leave. My partner tried to discuss with BM the way he's been treating me (SS is 3.5). All she says to BM is not to be mean to me and that's it. I personally feel like she's behind a lot of it.