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Sigh...the HRO did not stop the harassment

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 09/19/2022 - 11:07pm

It's been a week since FIL got the restraining order served to him and already we've gotten another message from the uncle who had no previous involvement. 

This one said he heard DH was a piece of work labor day weekend and that he will be funding all efforts to make sure he takes care of his daughter (financially). Ending it with "I hope you have deep pockets!"

I shouldn't be surprised

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 09/16/2022 - 12:18pm

So DH ended up getting a civil restraining order against FIL because the criminal process for the assault charge is so slow. 

FIL was given the option to have his day in court for it, and he hired an attorney and is fighting the restraining order. Just why? Why is he wasting his money fighting to see someone who doesn't want to see him? The only reason I can see is that he feels entitled to keep harassing him. Or the inlaws think they'll still "get him under control" eventually. These people are insane.

SIL contacts our friend again

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Tue, 09/06/2022 - 8:58am

After FIL came to our house and assaulted DH this weekend, SIL immediately starting messaging our friends their version of the story (SIL tried messaging these friends, whom she barely knows, once before about us). Their version is FIL came to the door and told DH he wasn't there to fight, and just asked about SD and DH immediately flipped out on him. SIL said she "wasn't quite sure how it happened, but maybe DH came at FIL?" FIL said he had to grab on to DH to keep from falling because he had just had injections in his knees, which have both been replaced.

FIL came to our house and assaulted DH

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sat, 09/03/2022 - 12:00pm

FIL came to our house under the guise of delivering gifts. I answered, and FIL asked if DH was up. I said I'd check if he wanted to. DH came to the door, took the gifts and said thanks and tried to shut the door. FIL said he'd like to talk to him and then said "what are you gonna do about SD?" DH told him to stay out of it and he's already caused enough problems in that situation and called FIL a liar (regarding my last post claiming SD wanted to talk to DH).

FIL claims SD wants to see DH

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 08/05/2022 - 11:13am

So FIL messaged DH last night telling him that SD is very sad little girl and would like to meet him and our one dog (only the dog he had before meeting me of course) at a park. And then he added, "or are you done with being her dad now?"

So the first strange thing about this is that SD is currently on vacation in a different state at her maternal grandma's house (I'm guessing FIL doesn't know that). Also, why is this info coming from FIL? Is it just another attempt to get to DH since he's cut them all of and all of their attempts to surprise him and work and home have failed? 

I'm "stealing" DH from his family.

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 07/11/2022 - 12:41pm

We had DHs best friend and his wife over last night, and found out crazy SIL had been messaging the friends wife and trying to turn them against us. She told the wife that I was trying to take DH away from their family and detailed how horrible we supposedly are to SD. SIL said that last time SD was at our house, SD had to call her mom to come get her because SD was uncomfortable that DH threatened to turn off the wifi because that's her connection to her mom.

Inlaws stop by

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Wed, 03/30/2022 - 12:36pm

The inlaws stopped by unannounced last weekend to drop off a present for DS4s birthday. They know we typically have a party the weekend of or before birthdays, so not sure if they thought they were going to get to show up to the party and surprise us in front of people or what. Luckily we weren't home so we didn't have to deal with it.

Idk why MIL can't just say okay to the boundaries DH set and quit harassing us about SD instead of having to manipulate her way back in somehow.

Its been awhile, naturally I'm here to b*tch about the inlaws

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sun, 02/27/2022 - 6:22pm

So I haven't been on here much because there hasn't really been anything to report stepwise.

Until today, when I posted some pics of my kids, and DHs uncles wife felt the need to comment asking where SD is. "Cute pics, but uncle ___ wants to know where SD is?" 

Why does that need to be asked publicly, and why on earth would someone that isn't at all close to SD (I've met them twice I think, and they haven't even met the ours kids) feel the need to post that? Reeks of MILs gossiping to me...

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