Please help me learn how to disengage from my DH and SS(4). I watch SS full time (I'm not working right now) and I'm so tired by the weekend (when DH is off work) that I can't stand being with DH and SS at the same time. SS isn't bad, but he's never had structure or stability in his life. Well, before me and DH got together, and we've only been married for about 8 months and together for about a year and a half. We moved to his home town (away from my family and SS's mom) for financial reasons and because his family's very supportive up here.