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I'm just want to run away

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Submitted by Jadie poos on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 3:25pm

Me and my partner haven't spoken since yesterday afternoon because in a row I again told him how I felt. Am I meant to just put up with this awlful feeling of not being able to Bond with my SS4 forever ??? Will it ever get better, I know every situation is different but it seems to me like its the same for most on here, if your a step mum your the wicked step mother. He's only 4 its going to get so much worse !!!! I just wana run away with my baby and start again somewhere new Sad

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Submitted by seidahogirl on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 5:11pm

You aren't alone. Smile

I have a SS10 that I do not AND will not bond with. I've been with DH and SS for 8 years now and it's only gotten worse. However because I've lasted this long and have 7/8 years left until SS is 18, it'd be a shame to throw away my marriage now.

Your partner is hurt and extremely sad because you can't bond with the child. Have you tried counseling or parenting program? Sometimes they can be helpful even if you are already a WICKED mom. Smile

Hang in there, I will keep you in my prayers.