I have known my husband forever even before we both had kids (childhood sweethearts). He has a 18 year old (who he lost custody of when the child was 4 (long story-not his fault) just got back at 17) and a 20 year old. I have a 15 year old and a 13 year old and we have a 2 year old together. Problem is I ABSOLUTELY CANNOT STAND his kids. Their rude,disrespectful, have very bad attitudes, dirty, lazy have no direction in life and its frustrating. His son(18) just recently moved in with us and its been a nightmare.