Okay, so I did not go with DH. It took 3 hours and the only decision made was that we are going to pay for a counselor that BM/DH agree to but we pay for??
She refused any modification of schedule or cs.
I am feeling very emotional...Our Attorney told BM that we are requesting a court date AND getting a parenting evaluation no more mediation. This will cost about an additional $10k. What I want to know is why did we waste 3 hours in mediation that wasted $1k.
I was waiting for the outcome of this mediation to see if I can stay in this mess.....now there won't be any resolution for many months AND I have to pay for it. DH does not make enough $$.
so this $ is going to pay for this woman and her insane behavior and I can't make a callor deal with her at all.....or can I?
Except last week when she called SS12, to ask what size shoes SS8 wears bc she doesn't even know her kids size. I answered her through the phone which probably really pissed her off bc she had a few texts to send DH after.
DH still falls for her BS. Anytime she dangles extra time with the kids in front of him, he jumps but the condition is always there that I can not be within sight or there will be a rumble.
Maybe I need to just kick her a$$ and let her know that I am not a weakling who will take her stuff....I am serious, I really don't know what will stop her. She even told him that she is going to seopena (sp?) my Company recordsbc she didn't find that my Company exisisted. I sent her a link through e-mail showing her my registration and credentials and basically called her an idiot very professionally. She e-mailed me back and I will not open it bc I fear it will add more fuel to my already blazing fire, I deleted it. She sent a follow up txt to Dh telling him that I should not contact her. If she can send threats through him to me, can't I defend myself??
In mediation DH requested that BM stop texting except in emergencies and only e-mail otherwise. She refused, said she can contact him anytime and it's not harrassment. I am considering blocking her number from texts and telling her we refuse to accept any of her contact unless through e-mail.

Woman of ST, I ask you.....would you want some other woman "running" your man??

How long is this whole court/evalutaion process going to take?

Should I just have it out with her to get it off my chest and be done?

Help Me!!