I have been married to my husband for a year now. I get along with his ex very well. We even try to figure out how to get the kids behavior in check. They have been very rude to me and I am now making progress with SSon, SD is trying to get step son to be mean but he saw me cry today and is seeing whats going on. She even erased the both of their phone numbers from my phone. I have been kind, bought them nice things, taught them music(I`m a musician)I`ve done everything. I have a heart condition so I get very upset and it can be dangerous.