i can't even begin to keep up with my other blog, let me say this.bd & gf have been together for 6 months.we took the 1 step in aug yes the sec day of kg we had a meeting with teachers and it progressed to shadowing(where one parent comes an spends the day at school with child)1 all day then half day then lunch then pickup time! This has been an on going span of meetings. Not one time did gf express any concern or request to be included. My vent is about the way she did it! bd an i speak about this matter all the time on a daily basis that is the time to discuss it not at the sw office in the lobby. So call me what ever you want! That was ambush an i didn't make a scene we went with the meeting and parted ways. now like i said before she has all the info her actions or non-actions are all hers! Oh yeah,i don't want him! We work as parents. this has required more contact then is normal for us.