BM goes to court on contempt charges tomorrow (court date was orginially for today - slipped one day til 13 July)...... and she pulls more crap this saturday.

DH and BM are to meet for DH's two week visitation for summer for this month. The court order states 1200 noon for the visitation exchange. BM never shows up to the location and waits until about 1230 to answer her phone..... stating

She arrived at 1045 and left at 1115.... that she is not coming back and that the communication is flawed... so she will be keeping the child. She went on and on about how DH always pulls stuff like this and does not communicate with her. Instead of arguing with her.... DH lets her know what the court order states and tells her that she has to options. To follow the court order - or just stay at home - however her actions would be made known to the court on 7/13/10.

So finally she decides to get in her car and bring SD for the visistation but refuses to drive to the meeting location..... she shorts it by 20 miles and forces a further drive on DH. Whatever!

What she does not realize is that we figured she will pull something and showed up an hour early (1100) and were prepared to stay and wait a couple of hours in case she showed up late. I just felt it in my heart she would pull something this close to court because she was upset DH filed the case in the first place.

(If you read back in the blogs she has been alienating DH constantly for 7 years and was court ordered to stop (the judge made her sign an agreement of understanding that she would stop in Sept 09 in addition to the court order.)

WE HAVE A RECEIPT SHOWING WE WERE AT THE LOCATION AT 1102 AM ON SATURDAY MORNING WAITING. THIS WAS PURCHASED FROM THE GAS STATION WHERE THEY MEET AT THE EXIT FOR EXCHANGES AS COURT ORDERED.

So how was she there waiting and then left saying DH didn't show up? She has no clue we have proof we were there an hour early - and even there when she states she was waiting and left. It is just a damn shame she is still pulling this because she does not want SD to visit with her father.

COURT will be very interesting tomorrow...... especially since now she posted on facebook that SD crys when she has to go to DH's house for visits and she is her mother making good decisions by keeping visits from the dad. That she does not want her daughter growing up resenting men - and is only doing what any mother would do....

COURT will be very interesting tomorrow in deed. DH has the proof of the 7 visits stolen, emails, bogus protective order she signed, letters she gave the daycare blocking his visits, bogus abuse intake form, counselors notes, and emails from the teacher accounting for alienation at the school. I am so sad that this had to happen and that SD has to even be witness to her mother's tatics......but hopefully the judge will provide this little girl some relief tomorrow.