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BM is priceless............

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Sun, 06/20/2010 - 11:18pm

SD is here for three weeks this month (June) and two weeks in (July).......

So today on father's day - she decides to call sd at 942pm to let her speak to her "uncle" that SD has no clue of.

How do you call your kid on father's day - while she is with her biological dad - and let your boyfriend (who you just met - since sd has no clue who he is) ??????????? Just priceless...... I guess that is just one of her ploys to attempt to get my DH upset.

It didn't work.... he just laughed it off. They were seeing Toy Story 3 at the time..... BM text him Saturday 9:17am telling him, "If you planned to take SD to see Toy Story 3 dont, she will go with her aunt when she gets back home in two weeks."

DH said whatever - he planned taking her and did for the last part of father's day. BM will just have to get the hell over it.

I guess now she will take him to Child Support Court for spending time with SD at the movies to see Toy Story. That is her "punishment" whenever he does not follow her rules.

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Submitted by livinthedream on Mon, 06/21/2010 - 6:54am

Its a ridiculous way to live...if BM doesnt get her way then its back to court. Ive had that happen & its a drain if we as the stepmom feel the need to get involved in their drama. Ive found over the years that its best for me to stay out of it all & continue to move forward with my own life despite all the chaos & confusion that surrounds me. Its not about who is right & wrong..its supposed to be about being happy in life.

"To thine own self be true"

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Mon, 06/21/2010 - 10:09am

Oh I agree with you 100%...... I posted just to let other fellow steptalkers in on what happened this weekend.

With all the stuff BM has put DH through and me with filing false charges against us - we literally pay her no attention. DH does not respond to her texts or calls or emails unless it is something pertaining to SD that he can do something about.

but i have to differ - in some matters in life it is about who is right and who is wrong. Like BM who continuously alienates my DH with lies and filed false charges against he and I. AND now the contempt charges DH had to file for her taking 7 of his visitations this year.

DH nor myself confront her with anything - HE lets the court handle it.......

Thanks for the advice.... I agree..... and we are so much happier laughing at the mess BM pulls and moving forward then attempting to figure her out or discuss it with her. Its a lost cause. I have never gotten involved with BM - she is not worth my time.... I married my DH and got SD in my life as a bonus. I treat her (SD) with love and respect as i would my own BD. BM is not on the radar.

This weekend was an interesting event - I think she thought DH was going to call her or text her about it....... But no such luck.