So SS19 was refused enlistment in the Army so now he's stuck in my home. This week it became OK to tell me to get f*&^ed when I tell them to pick up trash, do chores, etc. I know the problem lies with DW. Is there a solution other than leaving? I talked to a lawyer a couple days ago, DW doesn't know. I won't owe DW a dime. I'm pushing 50 and I want to live. I can't waste more days on these useless children. They used to be great when DW wasn't around, now they are just full-time jerks. DW has given in to all demands. I need a solution other than something extreme.