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F THIS I CANT DEAL WITH THIS MUCH AT ONCE

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Mon, 12/11/2017 - 5:05pm

MIL diagnosed with breast cancer, DH is mentally a disaster, I found myself being talked into removing some of the items he owes me money for to decrease the remaining balance...which brings his total down to $883.56....my mom is being put in a psych ward supposedly after Christmas...and now I just got a message from my little brother who has cystic fibrosis and he is apparently in an ambulance on his way to the hospital. I'm still at work (12 hour shift) its a freaking visitation day and I feel like I'm going to have a meltdown. I don't want to do this anymore. I just want ONE happy Christmas just ONE DAMMIT Sad

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Submitted by MarySmith on Mon, 12/11/2017 - 5:27pm

That all sounds awful. I just said a little prayer for you and your family, especially for you to have the strength to get through it all. Everyone deserves at least one happy Christmas.

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Submitted by notasm3 on Mon, 12/11/2017 - 8:07pm

I am so sorry you are going thru all of this. I remember when my mother was dealing with terminal breast cancer and a zillion other things were happening in my life. I had pneumonia that almost killed me. Three of my houses were going into foreclosure. My life was so effed up.

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Submitted by Amcc13 on Tue, 12/12/2017 - 2:04am

That's awful that your struggling right now
Please do what is necessary to take care of you

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Tue, 12/12/2017 - 8:13am

Hugs. I know nothing's going to actually help... But we're here to listen and I'm sure a lot of us will be sending prayers your way.

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Submitted by hereiam on Tue, 12/12/2017 - 8:28am

Prayers and hugs, Hon. That is a lot to deal with and I'm sorry that you are going through this.

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Submitted by bananaseedo on Tue, 12/12/2017 - 10:34am

Oh I'm so sorry, that sucks!! All of it! I know the feeling hon....trust me. I've had all that crazy stuff at once happening-for years! It still doesn't end, most days I want to end it all. Prayers never worked. I honestly went from hard believing Christian and 'God is in all things' to a deist over the course of all that. I saw no 'hand' in all of that suffering.