I read that article that someone (sorry don't remember who :() posted about fathers looking for unconditional love from their daughters and pitting them against their spouses, princess syndrome ectect and I got really scared. So I decided to have a heart to heart with SO about our future and how he had better not ever undermine me (even though he sometimes does) or put me on the same level as SD, ect ect...we are a TEAM blahblahblah, our RELATIONSHIP will always come first blahblah...you know, one of those talks.

And he just looks at me when I bring up the term emotional incest like I grew another head and says "where are you GETTING this from???"
So I said, well, I read all these horror stories and these poor ladies have to deal with so much...but rest assured that if SD (she is only 2 now) gets to be a teenager and wants to try to push me out of the picture, I WILL put her in her place. To which he said "she would never do that, she loves you....you need to stop going on that forum those women are filling your head with crazies that will probably never happen"

So there ya have it, I am terrified of the future yet trying to nip it in the butt now and he thinks were all just a bunch of gossipmongers complaining about nothing...figures

Im not going anywhere though, I kinda love you guys