She just can't stop can she? Is there a full moon or something??
Our CO states that each parent may have reasonable phone call time with SD on the days they are apart. SO asked BM several times to please call before 6pm because she had been calling after whenever and it interrupted our nightly routine. That means she has ALL day to call and speak to SD (not that she always does anyway but still) ALL DAY!
He didn't demand that she call RIGHT AT 6pm, ANY time before 6pm! (just so I'm CLEAR on this)
Well, She didn't call ALL day, and she KNOWS that we have family dinner every Sunday at 5pm. Well we left to go to dinner. Apparently she called 3 times while we were gone, left a pissed off VM that we were "keeping SD from her" ectect, texted FMIL DEMANDING to know where we were. And get this, BEFORE FMIL told us that BM was going crazy, I TOLD SO as soon as we had access to a cell to have SD call her mom. THAT was ME being nice and making sure she got her call because we weren't home. BM FREAKS out on SO screaming contempt and when we got home from dinner SO got this message:
SO, I am letting you know that our court order states I am allowed reasonable phone time with SD. There have been four nights since July 1st that you have failed to answer the phone. You told me to call before six and u kept up to my end of the deal. From now on if I don't get my time to talk to SD I will be filing police reports each time. Thanks
First of all, we have magic jack so I can just screenshot our call records lol and second of all, WE HAVE NEVER missed a call with her, and we have proof.
REally bitch, the police are not going to care that you missed a phonecall anyway. ALSO have PROOF of the days that she never even bothered to call because she was "busy". FUCKING MORON.
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I thought you DID tell her to
I thought you DID tell her to call before 6 because it would "interfere" with SD's dinner and bedtime routine.
If you told her to call before then and then don't answer the phone when she (actually!!) does what you want, it is possible you can look unreasonable to the court.
Just something to think about.
We did tell her to call
We did tell her to call before 6, I'm not sure what you mean. We only have a home phone, no cells and we left the house at 4. She had ALL day to call and she called right at 6. We were at dinner with our family, as soon as we got there I told SO to use his moms cell so that SD could talk to BM. We left at 4, went to the store, took SD to the park for a bit and went to dinner at his aunts house. There is no way we are being unreasonable in this situation.
We have this issue with the
We have this issue with the phone contact too so I feel your pain. No matter what you always feel like you can't win. If you tell BM to call before dinner time she'll always call at dinner time. If you tell BM what time bedtime is it seems she always calls fifteen minutes after.
i personally think the whole
i personally think the whole phone thing is ridiculous anyway. They are with the OTHER PARENT for god sake, not off in some foreign country with a long distant relitive. I think it is just a control thing. just one more thing for some crazy parent to hold over the other parent head.
smh.