So, SO had SD today from noon till around 3:30 because BM had a job interview. I was out all day running errands so I wasn't here when BM dropped SD off but I WAS here when she came and picked her up.

Keep in mind that I have NEVER actually spoken to this girl other than in court when she was getting a ppo on me and twice via text. NEVER.Even in court I didn't even talk to her I talked to the judge.

Well, I got home and SD was in her room napping and SO was doing laundry (GASP!) so I sit down and chill for a second because I had literally been driving around since 9am. I see BM drive up and I tell SO that she is here so naturally he has to take his sweet time waking SD up, changing her diaper ectect. BM is knocking on our door and I didn't want her to get mad and think SO was ignoring her (it was taking him THAT long) so I went to the door with a big old smile on my face and just cheerfully told her what he was doing, sorry for the hold-up.

I think I took her my surprise because 1)she wasn't expecting me to come to the door and 2) I was insanely nice to her.

She asked me if SD had behaved or used her potty and I just told her that I had been gone all day so she would have to ask SO-all with a big smile on my face. She was just standing outside the door so I was like "you can come in if you want! :D" smilesmilesmile full of cheer lol.

she awkwardly stepped inside the door and stood at the bottom of the steps. But she didn't say anything rude, she didn't act like a raging bitch...it was SO weird.

All this time I've been irritated and mildly afraid of her because shes always so mean via text and email but when confronted with my friendlyness she didn't DO ANYTHING.

I just laughed after she left. She was so stunned.
I don't think she even remembers that she got a ppo against me haha.
I'm waiting for her to remember and try to call the police on me and say I threatened her lol, even though last time I talked to the sheriff he told me that the ppo becomes obselete as soon as she willingly steps foot on my property HAHA, but she doesn't know that

I hope she calls our phone soon so we can let it go to the answering machine