Hi All!
First time poster. I have been with my FI for 5 years now. We are actually getting married soon. The BM in our situation seems okay most of the time, but comes out of left field on occasion. PT conferences next week and she asks my FI to join her and the kids for dinner afterwards.... I just don't get it. I have NO desire to sit across from a table with my Ex-Husband.

So my question is, is this co-parenting or whack-a-doo?