There were a bunch of ss (90% of which were probably taken by me-the wicked sm). He has created such a fantasy of how he was mistreated here and had it bad for so many years-heck, IDK maybe I was buying into it-just how miserable it was for him all these years.

Yet I saw years and years worth of photos with him smiling, laughing-next to xmas presents, posing proudly by birthday gifts-birthday parties with all MY family present (yet my savior inlaws were nowhere present)-multiple family vaca's-at the ocean, in the mountains-playing all his various sports-baseball, soccer. All the memorabilia from grade school days were also there-the stories, drawings, etc Then there were just the every day normal type photos-building a snowman, playing ball with dh in the backyard, jumping on the trampoline, on a picnic and I thought to myself EFF THAT! This kid had an awesome life with us!

I'd like to do something with all of it but I'm not sure what. It crossed my mind to burn it. But, nah, I'm not that mean. Then I thought I could box it up and just send it to him-just to get it out my house. But 1)I have no doubt it would be lost 2)It would be seen as an act of aggression on my part 3)I made him a scrapbook last year in the one week he behaved when he lived with us. I never gave it to him as by the time I finished it he was back to being a royal ass. But I wsa afraid to give it to him as it might make him actually realize how awesome he had it here and want to come back! I'd be afraid of the same thing with all the other pics and memoribilia.