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OT-do you KNOW this BM? lol

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Just saw this on the news and wondered if anyone here knew this crazy BM...

http://news.yahoo.com/pa-woman-disappeared-2002-found-fla-160655714.html

Of course, I have already read the messages about how she has mental issues, blah, blah, blah...or how her life must have been hell, blah, blah, blah...not a single DEADBEAT MOM comment, no, those are only reserved for me...I sure hope the CS office nails her!

OT-DH on his way to parent's house to TALK to them AGAIN...hmmm

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Ah, so after last week's fiasco with MIL not calling DH to tell him that his SDAD was hospitalized with heart problems, DH has decided it is time to go back to talk to them...hmmm. He claims he wants to see his SDAD and will tell basically let his mother know that if she dares not call him next time, she can kiss his a$$ goodbye and to not ever expect a call from me if anything happens to him because he WILL DEMAND that I not call them or anyone else. Let's see how this goes...I don't think they'll get it.

OT-advice for a friend...ex wants to move to NJ from MA with kids

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Anyone here in MA that has had to deal with SKIDS, etc. moving out of the state? What has been your experience? Any tips?

I have a good friend and his ex is wanting to take his two kids with her to NJ to be closer to her family. His entire family is in MA. In fact, his mother moved there to be with her grandkids about 2 years ago. He is freaking out with this whole move thing. Any tips we can give him?

PS - besides that fact that it is a HUGE mistake to take those kids away from their dad, etc...

OT-Vent EVIL MIL will not stop...Ms Church Going witch!

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My DHs mother is one of the most evil people I have ever met. She has done everything she can to destroy our marriage. Early on she tried to tell my DH his daughter was afraid of me, although he KNEW it wasn't true as he was ALWAYS with us, as a way to get him to leave me. This crap went on for years until my DH finally put a stop to them. Then last year when she got cancer, she didn't tell him until a month or more after she found out and then tried to manipulate him with it, but making him either visit her or telling him NOTHING about her health (ie.

OT-anyone watch Dear Zachary on Netflix? it reminded me of the crazy BMs we talk about

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Last night I watched this documentary called "Dear Zachary" on Netflix. It was the heartbreaking story of a young man murdered by crazy ex-girlfriend...in addition, the ex also later had his baby. It is about how the justice system did nothing to protect that baby from his crazy BM. I have to say that hearing the games that the crazy BM played in that documentary reminded me of the craziness that many of us deal with when it comes to most BMs.

OT-what do you do for the home vs. your DH? I need to know if I am being unreasonable

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Well, as time goes by I get more and more angry as I feel that I do way too much and DH does not really pull his weight around here. While I will say that he does cook and clean off and on, I still think that I am being taken advantage of in many ways. However, I don't know if I am being unreasonable or not.

Here are some of the things I do that DH doesn't. Please note that I am currently working FULL TIME from home. In addition, my son is homeschooled.

Ah, loser is so happy with new baby on the way...she has a name picked out...

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So I wrote a couple of weeks ago about loser, ie. 18, being preggo again...ah, she's with baby daddy and going to school...I have a feeling it's our tax dollars paying for it, nope, actually, I am 100% convinced it is our tax dollars. Anyway, someone questioned how I knew...well, she LOOKED preggo, but well, today the confirmation...she's picked out a new name and just can't wait for baby #3...pathetic!

PS - no, DH still has no clue...no, I won't bother telling him

ah...and new baby makes 3...isn't welfare grand?

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}:) So, I just realized that loser, ie. SKID, dropout at 17, now 18 is preggo again...isn't life grand? I mean, it must be nice to be on welfare and just keep popping out kids...just 18...wow, amazing.

PS - I won't even tell DH...let him find out through someone else...but it ticks me off how these freaking women are allowed to have all these kids they cannot afford...pathetic...

feel like throwing up-half sister

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so thanls to craxy witch we could nevet afford to have another kid...now cs nightmare is.over and i jokingly say to.my son " wouldn't you like to have a brother or sister"...his reply, 'i have a half-sister, remember?" sob! that whore has taken wverything away...sigh no, he has no contact with her! the biggest mistale in my life was to get involved with a man with a little whore!

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