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OT-26 yr old "kids" who think some of us are "too negative"

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 1:47pm

I tell you...it's so darn funny to hear some people say to me "you are just so negative"...and then they post all kinds of "life is beautiful" and "it's those who are negative that cause the problems" crap on their facebook...or actually tell you about.

Well, let me tell you, if I was 26, didn't go to school, didn't work and had everything paid for by mommy and daddy, got to go out with my friends every single day, had the best of everything, went to concerts with my other lazy ass friends, all paid for by my old parents...I would be freaking happy too! And if in addition, I received all kinds of BS govt help because I claimed I had ADHD, but when someone tries to help you and questions you, you actually admit that "you just don't want to do anything", then I too would be freaking happy! But instead, I work 30hrs a week in one job, at last 30hrs a week on ANOTHER two part-time jobs, homeschool my son and then have to support YOUR ass so that you can party with your friends and tell me how freaking negative I am...sigh

OK, sorry, just had to get that off my darn chest!

PS - it's a neighbor...I used to really like her, but I am just so fed up with her attitude of I am so negative...BTW, she is a "psychologist", yes she GRADUATED college, paid for by who knows who, and has NEVER worked a day in her darn life...She also thinks that everything related to my DHs loser skid is so darn sad...she also thinks it is none of an SM's business to say/do anything to a kid that visits or lives with you, if you are not the parent...whatever! I set her straight on that...I told her I was going to send my kiddo to her house for her to keep for an evening, but she could NOT correct him because she was NOT his mother lol She said nothing.

OK sorry, lots to do and I am really getting tired of the BS. Most of my neighbors are always so darn happy, but most are scre@$%ing the govt in some way or another...most with some BS made up illness collecting SSI and then going on vacation or playing tennis...sick, just sick.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 2:19pm

This idiot put something the other day on facebook, of course, when I replied she said "oh, it's someone I know" whatever...because she claims that "people who complain about the crime, drugs and people living off the government" are actually the ones CONTRIBUTING to the problem lol Really? In what way, moron? No, I am just sick of hardly being able to go out worried that some idiot will rob me or my son will see some dead freaking guy on the sidewalk...idiot.

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Submitted by momagainfor4 on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 2:40pm

my bf says I'm being too negative when I correct the sd12. Seriously, now really? Since when is getting on to a kid negative? I was not mean, I was not nice. I stated the issue. That's that.

Negative would be me telling her she was stupid for not washing her plate. Or that she's stupid for not being able to take a shower without soaking the entire bathroom.
Or telling her that she's a big whining baby every time she notices her dad is gone and throws some hissy bc her dad left the room to piss.

Then that would be negative.
I think he's lucky I'm not negative!!!

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 7:22pm

oh dear God, you have one that freaks out if daddy leaves the room, too? sd is 19 and STILL does that. (eye roll)

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 7:21pm

sounds exactly like sd19. she even told me when i told her that being an adult is hard work and it isn't anywhere near as easy as she thinks it will be, that i'm just jealous because she has GOALS and she's happy and my life SUCKS. i told her that having a man who loved me and 2 beautiful children does not suck, and i don't appreciate her telling me how my life, that she does NOT live, is. she got shitty with a lot of people. she was on fb all the time bitching about the free jeep her grampa gave her and all kinds of stuff that she should have been grateful for, and talking about how awesome and easy her life is. yeah, because you got given a free vehicle. your grampa gives you gas money every week. you live at home and don't have to pay anything. everything is bought for you. that's not being a real adult. real adults work for what they have and have to make sacrifices.

i think it's funny when i read her shit now crying and whining about how broke she and bf are. (but it doesn't stop them eating out all the time and going to the bar every weekend). life is about to get really real for her because the idiot deliberately got knocked up. lets see how easy and great life is when the baby gets here! meanwhile, i'm doing just fine with my sucky life. }:)

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 9:28pm

This is the newest peace love no negativity my ex is tossing around. Our DD got so sick of him and his gf telling her she needed to not be so negative and look at the positive side she told them "Oh I'm sorry I'm not a sheepeople, I like to think and feel, for myself and will not be subscribing to your newest brand of religion" pretty much reminding her dad how he taught her to think, feel, and act for herself and be a leader not a follower. Haven't heard her complain about this since, and her brother has said similar to his dad as well (in a parrot of his older sister kind of way) We taught our kids to think, and to respect us as adults and parents, he now stomps around broke and struggling and pissed off because his peace love happiness isn't magically paying his bills nor the CS.