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Your son is an asshole!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by he.is.not.my.son on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 5:52pm

Why can you not see this? I am not his mom, I will never be his mom. I would never want to be his mom. Your son is a horrible person who gets no consequences for his actions. He is always stealing and lying and you are always turning a blind eye to it. I feel like ripping my hair out. I do not love this child, frankly, I don't even like him. I have lost all respect for you, and I don't even know if I love you anymore. I don't know how much longer I can deal with your demon child sucking the life out of me. I cannot stand to be in the same room with him anymore, I wish I could afford for me and my son to leave and never come back, just so I don't have to deal with your child. Pretending everything is okay is beginning to be to hard and I feel like I will eventually explode.

I wish I had the guts to say this to hubbys face Sad

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 5:56pm

so do I, oh wait I have for the most part, just candy coated it some...but dont worry I know exactly how you feel and one day chances are if we keep holding it in...we will explode...its called a stress induced mental break down!

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Submitted by 3familiesIn1 on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 8:04pm

I am fearful I am on my way to where you are and it ain't going to be pretty.

So far I love my husband and have been able to separate his disappointing lack of parenting and the lack of respect I have for him because of it from the man that is my husband. If that makes sense. Since we don't share children together, I have my own 2 bios - I just remind myself I am his wife and I married him to be my husband, not a father to my kids and how he fathers his 2 is none of my concern.

Otherwise, I could have written everything you did up there. I am not Ss6's mother, I never said I wanted to be, he has a mother, he is mean, if its possible for a 6 year old to be a prick, this is what he is, he is the definition of an adult prick, he never gets consequences for any actions and it gets worse by the year, playing ostrich may cost the marriage someday.

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Submitted by bi on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 8:28pm

i don't understand the glasses so many parents see thru, either. when bd17 is being an ass, i KNOW it. it pisses me off to no end. i cannot stand to see her acting like that. i light her up immediately. that crap is not ok with me. like hell i will ever look the other way. not happening. if she wants to act like a jackass, i'm gonna tell her she's a jackass, tell her why she's a jackass, and tell her what i think about that. i'm not happy that i've brought her to tears doing just that in the past, but i think it's better for her to hear the truth and cry about it then be led to believe that her behavior is acceptable so she will continue to act that way and no one will be able to stand her.