so i went and visited my dh yesterday and today, and of course bm tried to keep calling him and saying that sd wants to see him (which im sure is true, but she also wants to see him!) and he was coaching a game and bm wanted to go with sd! i was likeeee uh that will be interesting. She ended up chickening out but let sd go, so i got to see sd after almost 2 months. bm let more info slip about her crappy situation and she knows she couldnt continue to fight dh about him getting more custody. he just called me and they came to an agreement that they will have 50/50 custody (which i guess it will be more like bm having sd a few extra days a month..?) and that dh will have sd EOWE and then on the weeks he doesnt have her, he will have her wed-fri.

So its not gonna be exactly 50/50, but a hell of alot more than it was before and when bm had a bf to support her. and they agreed that she wouldnt try to go for back child support (which would of only been a 6 month period, which was iniated by her! but she was trying to claim it was for a year yea right). He is going to send it to his lawyer, he'll type it up and then they both have to sign it (which i hope she doesnt try to change her mind, but she has NO money to try and fight it so...)

I have a feeling he will see sd more than just that because bm doesnt have a car and moved in with her sister who has a car. so the only way sd will be able to get to school is if her sister takes her, or if she rides a bus, but i know dh wont allow that, since she is only 6 and he only lives 5 miles from the school &bm. So i guess we will see. I think the only reason why she is being so nice to dh is b/c she doesnt have a bf and she thinks that dh and her will be back together one day, doesnt matter how much he tells her otherwise...!