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Grown kids with their hands out and enabling father!

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Submitted by hangingin on Sun, 12/13/2009 - 4:47pm

I found out recently that HD is giving $100 a month to SD for "gas money" to get back & forth to Nursing school, which we have only HER word that she is going to school. Then found out yesterday that HD is helping her to "catch up" on her car payments. All of this is coming out of his allowance that he gets each pay period. We have to do it this way because he is not very good with paying the bills. So I do it. I just told him that if he can live on that plus pay SD's car note "just this once" than more power to him.

Conflicted & Confused....

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Submitted by hangingin on Thu, 06/05/2008 - 10:27am

Yesterday our son (10) spent the day & night with a friend, and while I was on the computer last night, I over heard HD on the phone talking with SD, telling all about his day, yada. yada.... Sooo, I went into the living room and sat down and point blank asked him why it is that he can talk to his kids (SS-25 & SD-22)and I feel left out because he's not telling me anything?

My Life so far......

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Submitted by hangingin on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 12:46am

My husband retained custody after the divorce. EX had run off with another man and abandoned the family. After finding out abt me,(I came into the picture a few months later)she did everything in her power to get him back, when that did not work, she started poisoning her daughter, against us. She actually told me that I could have SS But she wanted SD back.

I need some advice,

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Submitted by hangingin on Thu, 05/01/2008 - 8:13am

recently hubby had a heart attack, by all accounts, he has bounced back fairly well, BUT, he WAS a very active man and I think the forced slow down has made him even more depressed,I know that in these cases it is not uncommon to feel depressed, I finally (in desperation)called his Doctor, who said that he could mow the lawn,(riding mower) just don't drive or lift heavy things.