I didn't want to post this on my other blog because it was heated and I'm sure I would have been called more names. As of now, but it will change next month, I give my ex wife child support, an extra $1000 a month and I pay for private school and any expensive extra activities outside of normal after school stuff. For example, she pays for tutoring with extra money I give her but I would pay for a week at sleep away camp. Next month I will pay an extra $500 instead of the $1000 and I will pay for tutoring along with sleep away camp.

I went to my counseling appointment Thursday and my wife was waiting for me in the office. The first part of our meeting was our counselor explaining to my wife how this works and getting her back ground information. The second half was our counselor asking my wife to explain what is going on from her view. She told the counselor that she is tired of feeling overwhelmed when my kids are there. She told the counselor they aren't bad kids it just upsets the dynamic of our home. She complained that her kids don't like mine and that they shouldn't be unhappy in their home.

As expected I came home to an empty house. There was a note on the table telling me she had taken her girls and gone to her sisters and if I want her back I need to do xyz. XYZ includes paying her bills, paying for private school for her kids, seeing my kids outside our home for summer except for every other weekend in which she will leave the house and a list of other things she is unhappy about concerning my kids. I called her and asked her to dinner in voicemail for tonight. I would love for her to come home and things go back the way they were before but I can not do that.

It was my weekend to have my kids and Thursday night my wife was being a real witch. I could do nothing right and she was in a mood. I asked what I could do to make her night better but nothing worked. She was fine which I know doesn't mean fine. When I got home with my kids Friday, the house was empty. She took her girls and left for the weekend. No warning no nothing. She told me when I texted her and asked where she was. They followed the normal Monday routine and she acted like everything was normal. I asked her if she was going to go on vacation with us next week and she said, us? no.