SD11's bday dinner at grandparents. DH decided to purchase an iPad mini for her. Sigh. As she's impatiently waiting for him to set it up he says: "If you treat it well, OP (me) and I are going to buy you a MacBook when you are 15!" Then I said "Oh wow, ok!" Death eyes from SD11, MIL, FIL and DH. DH leaves to step outside. I eventually follow. I say: "we just got her an iPad. One step at a time." He says: "that's fine but you could've talked to me privately to communicate how you feel about this!" And then silent treatment from him for the last remainder of the evening. Am I crazy?