Hey guys. Hope you all are managing laterly. Ok, I've not been on here because, I've been blissfully happy because SD now 9 has been visiting dad's mom, and her mom during the summer. Although we wanted her to spend the time with her mom, her mom wasn't able to see her the WHOLE summer until the last two weeks of the summer -- when we were going to have her. WTF! You can't make time to see your child? Whatever...

So, SD9 gets to spend the time with her crazy dysfunctional mom for only two weeks. So, that brings the total of days that she has seen her mom in one year to the total of 15. That's sad.

Anyway, the reason for my rant is that I recieved a letter from the school food system that says SD9 is now eligible for free lunch. So, I was like - why? We make too much to recieve this type of benefit. After further investigating, SD9 was direct certified meaning that someone indicated her on a form to recieve W2 assistance and indicated her. So, after FURTHER investigating....I think her mom is claiming that she is living with SD9 in which is wrong and would be considered fraud.

DH wants to report her, I do too. For me, don't get us involved in your fradulent activities. Now the people at the school think we are into something that we are not. I can't stand this....so here we go again with the drama of the school year. I for one, think the system is there for those that need it. Her mom has two eyes, two legs,two arms and a brain, and can work - somewhere....I have not tolerance for those that tr to BUCK the system. Especially when my tax dollars pay for it.