Its only week 2, I need strength to get through the next 24 weeks.

Skid24 has actually been better than I expected since he moved back, he is making an effort and it is noticed. I am making an effort too and at least DH acknowledges that.

Skid wants to say longer than months and he asked before moving in, he wants 9 months. However, I told DH 6 months is what I am willing to do and I will consider it has time passes.

The only thing so far that is going to make it a no is DH.

Since skid24 moved in DH is up his ass trying to baby him, defensive with me for no reason and is displaying his inner spineless Disney Dad. I can’t stand it.

Skid24 started parking behind my car on the drive way, blocking me in the garage. I asked DH to mention to skid not to and we arranged for him to have off the street parking with a double front driveway of his own at the house next door that is vacant prior to this.  Normally I don’t go out much in the evening, so most times will not affect me, however its that one time that will be a pain in my ass and piss me off. So I asked DH to do this before its an issue, he said to me well he leaves before you in the morning so it not a big deal. The other night skid comes home sick and goes to bed, at 7pm I am going to do errands and grocery shop and his car is in my way. But no DH could not say shit to skid even in a nice way to benefit him. Seriously???

Anytime I even speak about his son DH gets hyper defensive. Does not even hear what I say before coming to his defense. I was complimenting his kid and he is being all defensive then denies he was.

Goes around and babies him, I don’t get treatment even when I am sick.

Tonight skid comes home with leftover curried chicken from his mom's house, I said to skid as he came in annoucing his leftovers that he should throw them out, curry is not allowed in the house. DH can't stand the smell of curry, I am not allowed to cook curry or have indian take out becuase of it. But skid is allowed to put his curry dinner in the fridge and its fine. My son is coming home tomorrow and during his stay we will be eating curry take out in the house. Obviously DH has no issue with his skid having it in the house then he should have no issue with the co-mortgage payor having curry in the house. 

My bio is coming out for Christmas this year, it was planned before skid was moving in. He has not been out in a year. We moved into a new house in the summer and my bio’s bedroom furniture is in the only spare room. Before skid moving in DH and I talked and said my son would get the room for his 10 day stay and his son would have vacate that room and move to my office on the futon for those 10 days. A few days before skid moved in DH was saying that his son should stay in that room because its easier, I told him we already agreed that my son would stay in his own bed and skid had no issue with that before moving in. This morning DH says to me since his kid is sick with a cold and that since he spends most of his time in the bedroom (which is true) that we should have him move. I said he discussed this twice and that my son gets the room and to stay in his own bed, I further told DH that he comes home 1-2 times per year, I want to make his visit enjoyable, so he might come more often. Meanwhile we are doing his kid a favor, its not like he is coming for a visit from out of state/province.

DH was pouty but agreed. I come home tonight, and he wants to buy a bed and turn my office in to a spare room. I rarely use my office and it will be less since I just accepted an offer for a different job and I will not be working from home ocassionally. But really? If I said ok his son could have the room with my bio’s bed and my bio be on the futon the idea of buying another bed would not even come up in this mind, and if I said anything I am sure his reply would be “its only for 10 days, we don’t need to spend the money”.

I don’t think I can take 24 more weeks of the new DH.

Agrhhhh!