So let me tell you on what I am working on right now. }:) }:)

Most of you know the situation between me and my Monster in law.

After the last stunned she pulled, dh changed his number.

Somehow she got it anyway (we guess through Bil, he still lives at home), so she called and dh and her got into an 3 hour long conversation or as I like to call it screaming match lol. Anyway in the 3 hours dh addressed several things, his childhood, her loyalty to bm, her constant bashing of his father and her disrespect to me.

To sum it up, she had the nerves to say that and I quote:

Goodstepmom is nothing. ( as in less then or nothing worth)

Dh: What did you just say

Mil: She is nothing. My Spirit tells me she is not a good person ( yes her spirit, you read right, her spirit as in god is telling her this.She uses this all the time, my spirit told me this bla bla bla my spirit told me that bla bla bla. Her spirit is an excuse for being a b!tch and hate people she doesn't know)

After that there was more yelling. At some point dh just hung up.Anyway we thought it was over since she clearly doesn't want to apologize for the things she has done wrong, or change.

2 weeks later, her she comes knocking at our door, we had no idea she would show up.

She shows up with her husband (by the way he is a great guy , dh likes him more than he likes his own mother)

She shows up with Christmas gifts. :?

I completely ignored her , just talked to him. We sat in the living room, she was with dh in the kitchen (he was cooking, it was his turn)

So then she constantly called me over, to show me things. She brought pictures for dh. She felt like she had to show me those. Whatever. Right after she showed them to me, I got up and sat back in the living room . 2 minutes later she called me back saying there was more, I should take a seat, she wants to give us something. She hands dh a package and puts a package right in front of me, I ignore it . Then she says: this if for you goodstepmom, I just said" oh really.Then she watched while I opened it. I opened it and sat back in the living room. No thank you from me }:) . Shortly after that they left.

Dh gift was a Bibel, she even marked something about giving charity. (This is because dh has told her that bm doesn't pay child support and mil thinks that is okay)

My gift was some bath stuff, which I found out was from the 1 dollar store.

Now here is the thing (for all those who think I should be nice and not rock the boat)

In the past my mil has talked about me, she even talked about me before she has met me. Back then it thought she was being protective now I know she is just evil. I have sat down with her, like a grown-up and I have asked her why she feels this way about me. She has apologized and admitted that she was wrong for saying those things. Okay i thought, but right after that she started again, and now after 3 years, she has not changed.

Mind you in 3 years, I have seen her 8 times, 2 out of 8 times it was just me and her. Those 2 times combined it was maybe 3 hours, and that's a stretch. Not once did she made an effort to get to know me, both times she only talked about her ex husband, dh father, and all the things he has done to her and why I shouldn't like him (mind you at that point they were divorced for 25 years lol). She told me things believe me I shouldn't know :O . She doesn't know me, nobody in her family knows me, so there is no way she gets any information about me.

It is clear to me that this woman doesn't like me (for reasons unknown) so why on earth would she give me a gift? Why do you ask. Because she is fake, she probably thought that dh didn't told me all the things she said about me only 2 weeks before she came (well dumb b!tch you were on speakerphone). At first I wanted to address the issue when she was in my house but then I didn't want to make her husband uncomfortable since I know he would have stopped the argument to make her more comfortable.

So instead, I am going to send her a thank you card, I am going to write in Bible verses about loyalty, judging others and fake Christan's. I am sure she will get the message. This is pretty passive aggressive, but I really don't care. I don't like fake people, I mean honestly, if she doesn't like me (for reasons unknown) then why pretend, over and over again? Just be honest, you don't like me (for reason unknown lol I love saying that lol) and I am fine with that, I don't need her to like me, I just don't like her showing up with fake gifts and her pretentious smiles.

I am going to let her know what kind of person she is in her own way, using the Bible. And even thou I am an atheist, I don't like using the Bible in this way, I don't like being disrespectful to other people's religion, but she started it.

She also wrote my name wrong, really after 3 years you cant write my name right ,and I have an easy name. I said it is because she doesn't know me, but dh said she does this on purpose to piss me off.

Ohh and I am not going to change my mind about this, so please don't even bother lol.
Sorry for rambling