BM2 is high conflict, and has NO custody. She gets 8 weeks a year of summer vacation. Refuses to pay her child support. Refuses to tend to SDs special needs when she has her. Just an all round piece of crap deadbeat parent.

She lives in Georgia. We live in Alaska. She emails DH yesterday to tell him that her family is flying her up for a visit, and she wants to see SD. Can she take her for the weekend?

Well, that depends, BM. Did hell freeze over? Did you wake up this morning to a troupe of monkeys flying past your bedroom window? I didn't think so.

There is no one in this family that is even willing to deal with her, meet up with her, or communicate with her after all the lying in court and high conflict shenanigans. No way. I can't believe she even asked.