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UPDATE: My stepson still had not said my name aloud but

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He went to his family counselor after a several month hiatus and my DH went as well a few days after SS.

SS(14 years old) was with us last weekend and we brought it to a head when we ate dinner with a good friend who was aware of the situation and ended up being, though we did not plan it, a pretty good mediator.

My stepson refuses to say my name aloud

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OK, it's been ages since I've been here. I know I don't have it as bad as some but I realize that I have been putting up with being treated like wallpaper for too long.

Talked to DH and he is agreeable as of a few days ago that it is unacceptable for his son to refuse to say my name aloud. We pushed this issue a short while ago and right now stepson is upstairs in purgatory. So how do we enforce this?

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I haven't been here long but I'm reading stuff that indicates drama between posters. Since I don't know you people too well I can't make sense of it.

I mean, when I 1st found this, I tried to read all the posts of one or 2 of you who I saw posting pretty often, but got a little tired.
I suppose that if I end up sticking around for a while, I'll be able to differentiate between most of you but so far, I'm only certain that Dawn started this site and she is pretty fair minded.

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I actually want BM to find this and see things from our perspective. I am inclined to believe that she has because I put a link to this site from myspace, which is how she tracked my thoughts before. She currently does not want to speak to me directly. Early on when I 1st met my FSS, BM actually showed him pictures of me from myspace, saying, "Is this the woman your father is with?" At that point, the poor kid said I was not.

Anyway, I probably should watch what I say here. I will say this, having read a lot here, I am finding my situation to be not quite so bad.