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HUSBAND IS THE CHILD NOW

goaway's picture

My SD finally lft this saturday brought friends over and moved everything out..Dad confronted her about a diary we found detailing when she would go out with friends she would get F'ed up so what does that mean? I though either drugs or alcohol..she said "oh dad i just wrote that for the hell of it we all do that...i wouldn't do drugs or alcohol so that was it he fell for it...I just said that's it you believe her? then he turned it around said why do you judge her without having solid proof? i just said forget it this is useless..if your daughter has a problem then it's your problem only thing is we have to pay for her issues even with her being gone..I asked for the keys back she was furious but then with her friends she would be laughing out loud to just try to prove that this is all fun. During the entire move Dad did not lift a finger either he couldn't deal with her leaving or he was in a twilight zone...he acted like nothing was going on..the next day though he was a sarcastic A@@ and mean i am trying to be nice and just carry on but it is very hard now he is very resentful I'll try my best to just blow it off but it's not easy when your 7 yr old says why is daddy being mean to you mommy? Should i just prepare meals and carry on even though he is throwing a tantrum?...

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starfish's picture

gosh, ga, don't you know by now to NEVER question what the precious say to DDDAAAAAADDDDDYYYYY?

i would tell bs7 "i don't know why daddy is acting mean, why don't you ask him?" maybe dh will realize what a shitty example he is setting for his son...

as for you, carry on as if he's not there. call some old friends or have some over and chat and gigle your ass off, so he knows he is NOT pissing on your parade.

Most Evil's picture

maybe just try to celebrate internally if you can.

but don't put up with any crap from d h

tell him he needs to check himself - stat!!!