Tomorrow were starting counseling
Not sure why I'm posting this ? Can people change? I bring problems to this marriage to, and I'm scared to death I can't change how I feel,act,think, or respond to what we need to make things work, I'm 100% in love with my husband, there's no question if I should stay or go, we just have the same issues everyone has, kids,money,work, and yes,,, his Ex,,, I always seem to come in second place, and when I try to talk to him he justifiys everything by saying "it's for my son" I have kids to but yet I feels like it 's totally differant,I'm hoping our counselor will wave a magic wand,or sprinkle some fairy dust on me so I won't give a crap about anything anymore,and just blow the stupid little things off that just get bigger and bigger, I've been with him for 10 years,and married for almost 6, if we can get threw the next 4 ,we can get threw anything,,,,
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If he wants to work at it and
If he wants to work at it and you want to work at it, you can both change. DH and I did it (are in the process of doing it?) and started counseling when we had been married for 5 1/2 years.
I can't believe the difference it has made.
You can change, you just have
You can change, you just have to really want to, and so does he. FDH and I have been in therapy a few times now and things are so much better already!