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Wow getting married is hard work!!

Hey everyone! I haven't gotten to get on here in a few weeks and man have I needed yall! Sooooo much has happened. I need about 5 blogs to tell ya all about it:

Here's the short version: If you want the long version, ask me about one- some are hilarious!!!

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No change

Well hope everyone is having a good week! I'm stressed to the max and wishing I had eloped!!! Just kidding

We had a pretty good weekend with SD. I was around a little bit but still gave them time alone. We had a lot of fun in the time spent though. But she still wont budge on the wedding. It's in two weeks and I'm praying she will change her mind. BM's bday is next weekend and we're hoping to swap then. Everyone cross your fingers and pray for us!

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Spoke too soon

So BF had proposed a new schedule with SD and BM the other night but we found out last night SD rejected it. And despite the fact that it would really be beneficial to SD, the BM wont force her to do it. Says it's SD decision. Whatever makes her happy is the only way to go. She's 9 years old and we're just asking to switch weekends so she can be around my friends' children and come to the wedding.

Definitely going through with it!

I just want to say thank you to everyone who has helped me this week in my lil crisis. I have decided I am definitely going through with it. I know most of think if I have doubts I shouldn't but I don't have doubts about BF or SD. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with those two. No matter how bad SD is. I'm praying that BF and BM can start compromising and it will get better.

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Calling it off

I'm thinking of calling the wedding off. It's only a month away but I don't know if I can handle this. I love him so much and don't want to be with anyone else but the BM is going to kill me. I can't handle the pain SD is going thru even tho I know it's not my fault. I can't make the BM understand and I don't think I can do this anymore.

I dont know what to do! I love him but the stress is killing me. And having someone else running our lives is not what I had planned!

Just another day

So not much has happened since I got SD grounded. She's acting okay but has reverted back to not wanting to talk to DH on the phone. But I had to add one thing on here that I just found too funny. I was cleaning last night and found a shirt from 1993- airbrushed with BM & DH's name from Florida. I asked him about it and he said that was the shirt BM sent for SD to sleep in! He had asked SD about it and she said BM packed her clothes. Just thought it was funny- I dont think she'll ever give up!

why doesn't she get it?

So my posts run about two weeks apart because that's the time between visits! I wish I could get on here more but no time. Hope everyone is doing well.

New at this blog

I'm new at the blog thing so bear with me! A little background- I've been dating my fiance for a lil over year and half. He has a beautiful 9 yr old SD who has been completely turned by someone. We only have her every other weekend so dont really have much of an influence. Really dont think the BM is intentionally doing anything just doesn't realize her actions and words matter so much. So SD has been giving fits for about a year. She used to be a daddy's girl but something has changed. I stayed away voluntarily to allow her time to deal with it. SD feels I am taking her place.

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