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Stepkid's BIRTH !!!!

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Have you seen the video?

Well, I DID!!! the video is in my house, in the video BM is naked :O ... OMG... I saw that. I'm traumatized! I wanted to tell DH throw that away!!! but... it is the birth of his precious princess :O !!!

OMG... He cried in the video, when she was born! ... I want that... I want to have a baby with him Sad

I need Mediator info.

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If you don't wanna read so much background info, go ahead and jump to the question at the end!

*DH and BM never married, had a child, split when the child was 20 months old, and pretty much had "joint custody" although they never went legal. DH and I married when SD5 was 4 years old. I also have an 18 month old, and DH has been the ONLY father figure my son has had, and will be adopting him one day.*

Right now BM lives 12 minutes or so away from us, is the same, city, and area, in Orlando, Florida.

Charter schools

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Hello everyone!

Ok, so right now, BM lives in the same are that we live (about 12 minutes apart) It's relatively easy to take turns to drop and pick up SD5 from her PreK (which is like 3 minutes from her house). DH and I are getting ready to buy a house in another area, since we totally HATE this ghetto area, although is close to everything, Universal Studios, restaurants, Supermarkets, walmart, everything!

BM will always be 1st in SD's heart...

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Is it wrong that I feel bad because when I pick SD5 up from school she looks down, sad and disappointed because it wasn't her "mommy" picking her up?

I know I shouldn't expect more from a five year old, but I'm human, I have feelings, and is not fair that I drive to get her all excited, and I get a "I wanted my mommy to pick me up" not even a "hello". Sad

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