Everyone tells you that people like that will get theirs. I reply WHEN? WHEN? WHEN?

I feel like our BM has everything while I struggle because DH is still supporting her. He can't contribute to our household above the necessities. She lives in a new expensive house. We live in a 100 year old house and can't do improvements. I have to try really hard to not think about it because every time I do I get really pissed off that it is so unfair.

Maybe we need to make those little voodoo dolls to speed up the Karma.

Karma keeps hitting BM here, but she is too stupid to realize it. She is ok with the scumbag, low life that she leads.

At least your BM has a fucking job. Mine "supposedly" got laid off last April and STILL can't or won't get a job. And really why should she, she lives for FREE! She pays no rent, no utilities, pays for no food thanks to Government Assistant, her daddykins just bought her brand new fucking Jeep and she is forever asking SO for MORE. Mean while SO works a crap job can barley contribute to OUR household, he does the best he can. I make decent money, drive an older model SUV and struggle week to week. You know I have that pesky thing called, RENT, and utilities, and food and car insurance and my own bios to support with no CS from their POS father.

SO I hear ya where the fuck is karma for these greedy bitches. Yea am I jealous, a little, but then again I don't if I could live off someone else like that. How could I have any self respect or pride in the things I have when they aren't even mine, worked for and paid for by ME!

Girl it never comes for these POS people. Our BM left work, chased DH down bc she thought he had the kids (which he didn't), went back to work, called him screaming at him, went off on someone at work.. Got fired- or a huge severance packaged and a closed file. Lied in court asking for more CS bc she had a low paying salary job for her dad making $200 a week BEFORE taxes.. Didn't have to give DH any of her retirement bc she SAID she spent it on kids bills never had to prove it, got half of DHs bc he didn't spend his. Took pictures and video of them following us, came to our house showed these pictures and videos in court. Had to have a court order before a dr would acct SS as a patient bc BM went there showing her ass..admits to doing stuff behind DH back regarding the kid and then saying he isn't helping .. And she still has them 50/50

I think Karma needs a bloody reboot! BioHo is living the good life and she is WAY overdue for a dose of Karmic payback. 3 car payments (oldest car is 2.5 years old), a house payment (SIX bedroom house), annual family beach vacations where the house rental alone costs $3000, weekly mani/pedis, regular touch-ups at the hair salon, catalog-ordered clothes... This C-word has been ho-ing around since she was 9. Yes, NINE YEARS OLD. She has 5 kids with 4 baby daddies and wouldn't know how to be faithful if she was on a deserted island with 2 cucumbers.

On the other hand, if I so much as farted within 10 yards of some high-ranking official, I'd likely be jumped by 10 cops, physically restrained, tear-gassed, cuffed, and spend the next 5 years explaining I'd had Taco Bell for dinner the night before and it was not chemical warfare.

I feel this way too at times. But then I look at it this way. I am more concerned with MY life and the happiness and good things in my own life then if BM is going to be hit with the karma train. If she does, well good. If she doesn't, oh wells. Shit happens. Do I like that she gets away with murder at times and things come easy for her? No. But am I going to let it affect my life? No.

I'll focus on my own life and happiness and worry about my own grass.

The thing with these BMs is if they are doing everything the easy way or the wrong way or cheating way, eventually in time it will catch up with them. Maybe not to "my standards" but it will.

As I've wandered through life dodging one pitfall after another, it's occurred to me also, that the only person getting consistently hit with the shit stick is me. DH says I've lost my faith. I have, if I ever had any to begin with. I've lost my faith in Karma, lost my faith in god, lost my faith in humanity, and in some low times lost faith in myself.

Human beings can only take so much, for so long before it alters them. Like the ocean beating against the rocks of a cliff. Even something as unyielding as rock breaks down when pummeled day in, day out by the constant barrage of the waves.

Shit... I just depressed myself again...

I think Karma doesn't get some of these psychos because they have no ability to self-reflect and feel guilty about it.

I do have to say that I got my DH. We got married and bought a house together. All things that BM desperately wanted and didn't get.

We might not have the best and greatest and newest stuff like she does but we don't have a shit-ton of debt either! I bet they cannot say the same thing.

Plus, I would never be able to live with myself if I were a person like BM, even IF it meant that I could live a life like hers!!

I don't know if I believe in Karma

My aunt and uncle had their trailer burn down when I was a teenager. The received enough money to build a lovely house. After 10+years of my two cousins destroying lovely house, it too burned down.

But the real mystery is why do they still have all of my cousin pictures from growing up and why did they park their vehicles on the other side of the property instead of the driveway both times they had a mystery fire. :? :?

Karma still hasn't got them.

Oh karma where are you? Our BM does not inspire any jealousy in me but I certainly see her glass as more than half full with items stolen from DH. She owns a 5 bedroom house in a highly desirable neighborhood, is the sole proprietor of a hugely successful business that she was able to build while married to DH because he slaved away at a grueling job. Post divorce she got half of his retirement account, the house and the business- he did not ask for half of anything.

Screw material possessions, we have enough, but she also took his three kids away from him as if she was a pied piper and they lobotomized rats. The skids are smart, healthy, seemingly thriving in their respective fields, and treat DH worse than dirt. I am sure BM who is remarried to a codependent woman thinks that she got it all. Her false facade is Earth Mother type figure. That's what everybody sees. Not a monster who uses and discards those silly enough to fall for her dubious charms.

My heart goes out to DH who at times feels like he has nothing to show for the 20 years of his life spent with her.... Other than PTSD.