Since my husband has a better job I see his behavior getting worse with this whole buying thing. It’s like right now he is trying to top the BM in buying the children things.

So I guess he is going to start acting stupid and start buying the children's love... :sick:

I really do not get the whole I must over wham my children with material stuff. I am all in buying age appropriate things, and fulfilling a wish list on birthdays and Christmas but I see this turning into a problem where at every becking wham whatever his daughter ask for he is going to be out there spending the mother load if that will put him up the top number above BM

What aggravates me more is if he does not have enough money to buy something he comes over to me asking me for a hundred dollar bill. I guess this is going to make me look like the hateful person because I will not agree to his becking call to everything he wants to buy for his daughters. Especially for the oldest one. Sadly he leaves the youngest daughter out. He does pick the oldest daughter over the youngest daughter in a big way and it is really wrong. You can tell with his attitude he bubbles over the oldest daughter and just happy to buy her something but the youngest one is like Ugh well, she wants that pair of boots guess I get her that pair, oh hey look there is a replica of those boots over their $20 cheaper... The youngest one sadly falls on the cheap end of the stick.