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How can I ever love someone elses kids the same way I love mine?

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Submitted by Gabby77 on Wed, 10/31/2007 - 12:37pm

So last night BF and I are talking (Im pregnant) and he was saying something about how many more kids we want because they are expensive. Which always irritates me because he thinks 3 is enough ( baby +2SDs) and I want at least 2 more. SO he wants all kids to have own room someday which means with 4 kids we need a 5 bedroom house. SO now I'm irritated b/c I just was and I said that the baby and the next one could share a room. Then he got mad at me b/c he said i can't seperate the kids. So now I was really mad and I said I won't split the kids.

Which is fair????

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Submitted by Gabby77 on Wed, 10/24/2007 - 7:47am

I'll make this brief because i really just want feedback as to what is fair. We are moving to a 3 bedroom home. My fiance has 2 girls 7 and almost 3. I am 11 weeks pregnant. We looked at the house and I stateed it would be prefect because the girls could have the medium sized room and the baby could have the little one. Then my fiance states that oldest SD wants her own room with us b/c she has one at her moms. He wants to put the baby and the almost 3 year old in the same room. The girls only live with us 1/2 the week so I don't think that makes any sense.

Does anyone think it's odd....

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Submitted by Gabby77 on Mon, 10/15/2007 - 11:50am

for a 7 year old to kiss adults on the mouth. My SD kisses her father on the mouth when she kisses him goodnight. She used to try and do it to me....but I put a quick stop to it. I come from a very affectionate family but this is just something that seems odd to me. I understand that it is really up to families to set boundries....but I just feel like this is weird. SHe trys to do it with other people too.....What does everyone else think?

Please tell me if I was out of line

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Submitted by Gabby77 on Fri, 10/05/2007 - 8:21am

Last night my bf, and 2 sds and I went to my mom's for dinner. My puppy was arking at the table so I yelled at her. SD 7 started laughing. My mom asked her why and she said,

"sometimes when Gabby yells I think it's so funny I have to put my face in a pillow to hide my laughing"

This upset me, but I didn't say anything. Then this morning I broached the subject with bf. He was immediately defensive. This was our converstaion

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