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To breed or not to breed...

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So, I haven't been here long and I don't comment much but in my short time here I've noticed that most of the SM's here are either BM's themselves or want to be BM's.

How do you feel about those of us who don't want kids, never have, never will and don't even feel remotely maternal? Are we odd for being in this situation in the first place?

No right or wrong answers, won't get offended. Just being nosy at the old group opinion.

Am I a bad person for the way I feel?

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Sorry for the long post, I'm sure you guys and girls have heard it all before but I have to get this off my chest before I lose it.

First let me say I don't have any kids of my own, I've never wanted any, I'm completely non-maternal and I don't actually like children. My ex-husband understood that and didn't want kids either. In that respect I suppose we were a good match. Unfortunately, after 5 years of marriage, it didn't work out. These things happen and we're still friends.