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Counting down the days.....

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Fri, 10/28/2011 - 10:27am

33 more days until the deadline we gave SD21 to have her own place. I know she has not been saving money though (a week ago she didn't even have $10 to get her prescriptions filled) so I don't plan on holding my breath. *SIGH* DW gave me her word that SD21 would be moved out by then, but I have a feeling her word doesn't mean much at this point. God help me.....

Wearing on me mentally

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Tue, 10/11/2011 - 9:04am

A month ago, DW and I agreed to taking care of SD's 2.5 yr son while she works as a housekeeper during the week (2 hours away), and then comes back here and strips on the weekend. We told her we'd give her until the end of Nov to take care of him, and for her to get her own place. Considering that the money she makes at the strip club is tax-free, she actually makes more than I or DW does per week. One night she even came home with over $500. Of course I've started to notice that when she doesn't come home at night, she seems to come home with more money.

Just feel sad

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Fri, 09/16/2011 - 9:38am

I really don't know why, but the thought of having to take care of SD21's son fulltime for the next few months just has me sad. Our lives have been centered around SD21's life for over a year now, and I feel like this is just something else where we will have to give up the things we like to do in order to accommodate SD21. Just seems to be a never ending cycle. Her plan is to go down to the city she wants to live in to work a housekeeping job Mon - Fri. I told her my concern is that this leaves her NO time to spend with her son at all.

Manipulative SD21

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Mon, 09/12/2011 - 9:33am

So SD21 came home again this past Thursday with her son. She sat down on the couch and we actually had a really good conversation. Talked about her plans for her future, how she feels about her ex who is in prison, and I tried to give her some fatherly advice. I did kinda wonder though why she sat down and had that talk with me, because normally she only talks to her mom. She even said she found a housekeeping job that starts in a few days so she was excited about that.

The Prodigal SD21 Returns

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 8:41am

So since we found out that SD21 was engaged again to her ex who is in prison for the next 16 years, she basically has been avoiding us like the plague. Of course the only way we even found out she was deciding to stand by him was by her facebook page. We did notice that one day she came by during the day to move more of her stuff out of our house. Gotta admit, it has been so peaceful and calm in our house since we don't have to constantly tell her 2 yr old son to not get into anything while SD21 just sits on the couch texting.

Stupidity 101 must be a class taught at local high schools

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Tue, 08/30/2011 - 12:29pm

So SD21 this past weekend went to go visit her former fiancee who is in prison. For those that don't know, he was convicted of manslaughter of SD21's 3 month old son, which is the reason why she came to live with us. Back in April he plead guilty and will serve over 16 years in prison. During this whole time, SD21 has been communicating with him by phone, and he also sends letters to our our home. I'm always tempted to just tear up the letters, but I don't because I don't want to get in trouble for messing with someone's mail.

Guess who's pregnant

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Thu, 08/25/2011 - 8:16am

So last night, my wife told me that SD24 just found out she is two months pregnant. And who is she pregnant by? She's pregnant by the sex offender she used to date, and who is one of the reasons she lost custody of her first child. I swear, every single year I have been with my wife, somebody pops out a damn kid. I am so sick of my selfish ass SKIDS who keep bringing babies into the world that they can't take care of.

More drama

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Tue, 08/23/2011 - 12:10pm

So my wife and I took our anniversary to Jamaica. What's great about being in a foreign country is that it costs too much to use our cellphones, so we got to turn them off all week, which meant no stupid calls from the SKIDS. So when we landed back in the US, of course there were messages waiting for her, one of them somebody trying to call collect from jail.

SD24 Wants to Move In

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Thu, 08/11/2011 - 11:26am

So all of you know the issues we've been having with SD21 and her 2 year old son living with us this past year. So now SD24 is wanting to move in. Mind you, the last time she lived with us which was over a year ago, she wasn't doing any of the things she was supposed to do as a condition of her living there. (Focusing on her daughter, getting her GED, getting a fulltime job, etc) She only lived with us a few months before we kicked her out for associating with this one guy we told her she couldn't date. (Guy was on parole and was wanted for taking off his monitoring device.

SD21 Thinks She's Getting Her Way

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 12:39pm

So if you've read my other blogs, you know all the trouble I am having with SD21 and her attitude and entitlement problems. The last time we got into a big fight in front of my mom who was visiting from another state because of her wanting to bring weed in our house. She got her medical marijuana card, and she thinks that should give her the right to do whatever/whenever she wants. Called me an asshole in front of my mom and said I needed to grow up.

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